Joey, my situation worse off than you. My hubby after 2 weeks fly back to Shanghai liao leaving me alone to take care of baby and arrange all whatever need to be done. My mum is my confinement lady but I don't want her to be too tired since she also not young, so I end up doing most of the things myself. Couple with my no breast milk, I am very very frustrated. Want to give up BF but press on so that I have no regrets later. I tell myself must rely on ourselves so tahan until now. Even he was not around to see the birth of the baby I also nevermind.You can always find chance to let ur hubby do the work, last time I also, then after that some time I will tell my hubby I going out with fren to club, I need to relax, ask him look after baby, he no chose have to let me go... He will do the job for looking after baby...
Don't think too much of unhappy things and get depress. Crying is not good during confinement. Tell your hubby to help you and do the things when you are tired. Don't keep to youself and suffer ok?