I've been enduring for 2 years since my daughter was born till now... and there so many things that happened that nearly caused me to divorce with my hubby.. As usual.. i have problems with my mother in law.. the usual problems that everyone facing... on top of that i have problems with my brother in law as well.. in order to shorten my post... i'll just write a summary of my life for two years..
- got marry cos pregnant and thus stay in in law hse at first..
- at first my mil was taking care of my daughter and keep giving excuse like need go doc appt last min or busy need go out and ended up i always have to take last min leave to rush home.. thus once my daughter got 18mths i send her to childcare.. as my mil also doesn't know how to teach her.. and she dun even cook for her.. just keep asking her drink milk and eat biscult even after 1 year old.. so my daughter health was not very good..
- in law owe HDB a lot of $ and force to sell away their hse.. then all of them (my mil, fil, sil,bil ) move to my hse... -.-" and take things for granted
- in order not let them stay at my hse for too long, my hubby and i bought a 3 room flat and stay with them.. but they take things for granted also.. use electricity like nobody business ($300plus a mth.. it's a lot for a 3 room flat) as we are the one paying for it.. they never even fork out a single cent..
- my gold jewellery and my daughter's gold jewellery (gifts from relatives/ bought them myself - kept in my own room) all went missing.. hubby always side them saying " aiya must be u forget where u put, after birth memory not good liao.." I suspect my bil stole it (cos he got very very bad record) but no evidence and i told my hubby that i'm not willing to let him stay.. when my hubby wanna chase him out.. my mil chu pattern.. say we got no evidence and say a lot of nonsense to keep protecting his son... even up to the extent of committing sucide (cos my fil quarrel with her to ask my bil to move out and she disagree) ended up my bil still staying with us now.. -.-""
- wanted to get a new flat and move out ourselves (sell current flat) and ask in laws to stay other place on their own.. but have problem getting new flat.. and hubby keep dragging saying.. " wats wrong with staying here?"
- going crazy with all the things they doing.. act as if is their own house.. like to place their things anyhow anywhere.. smoke in the hse even when my daughter is ard.. I Hate it.. even smoke while talking or playing with her.. i always try to bring her eslewhere if i see it..
-most of my time at home, i'll stay in the room with my daughter or bring her out.. i even lock my room door when me and my hubby is not ard.. but no use.. we have a spare key left for his mum.. cos my hubby say.. wat if my daughter comes home and door still lock inside or she needed something inside the room.. ( my mil will bring her home from childcare everyday)..
- i think i going insane soon.. and i think i'm facing depression as well.. keep thinking of revenge.. like stealing their things also.. i know it's wrong.. so i didn't do it at all but i keep having evil thoughts.. think i going crazy soon..
- got marry cos pregnant and thus stay in in law hse at first..
- at first my mil was taking care of my daughter and keep giving excuse like need go doc appt last min or busy need go out and ended up i always have to take last min leave to rush home.. thus once my daughter got 18mths i send her to childcare.. as my mil also doesn't know how to teach her.. and she dun even cook for her.. just keep asking her drink milk and eat biscult even after 1 year old.. so my daughter health was not very good..
- in law owe HDB a lot of $ and force to sell away their hse.. then all of them (my mil, fil, sil,bil ) move to my hse... -.-" and take things for granted
- in order not let them stay at my hse for too long, my hubby and i bought a 3 room flat and stay with them.. but they take things for granted also.. use electricity like nobody business ($300plus a mth.. it's a lot for a 3 room flat) as we are the one paying for it.. they never even fork out a single cent..
- my gold jewellery and my daughter's gold jewellery (gifts from relatives/ bought them myself - kept in my own room) all went missing.. hubby always side them saying " aiya must be u forget where u put, after birth memory not good liao.." I suspect my bil stole it (cos he got very very bad record) but no evidence and i told my hubby that i'm not willing to let him stay.. when my hubby wanna chase him out.. my mil chu pattern.. say we got no evidence and say a lot of nonsense to keep protecting his son... even up to the extent of committing sucide (cos my fil quarrel with her to ask my bil to move out and she disagree) ended up my bil still staying with us now.. -.-""
- wanted to get a new flat and move out ourselves (sell current flat) and ask in laws to stay other place on their own.. but have problem getting new flat.. and hubby keep dragging saying.. " wats wrong with staying here?"
- going crazy with all the things they doing.. act as if is their own house.. like to place their things anyhow anywhere.. smoke in the hse even when my daughter is ard.. I Hate it.. even smoke while talking or playing with her.. i always try to bring her eslewhere if i see it..
-most of my time at home, i'll stay in the room with my daughter or bring her out.. i even lock my room door when me and my hubby is not ard.. but no use.. we have a spare key left for his mum.. cos my hubby say.. wat if my daughter comes home and door still lock inside or she needed something inside the room.. ( my mil will bring her home from childcare everyday)..
- i think i going insane soon.. and i think i'm facing depression as well.. keep thinking of revenge.. like stealing their things also.. i know it's wrong.. so i didn't do it at all but i keep having evil thoughts.. think i going crazy soon..