Juz17
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Dear all,
Besides today is Monday BLUES, I also have pre-natal blues. I got so many things in my head and I dunoe how to release my stress over them. Perhaps anyone who is very free can give me some advice or suggestions. Thanks in advance...
1) Weight Gain - Sigh, I started being slightly overweight and now (at 20th Week) I gained almost 12 kgs already. I read that my max should be only 13kgs. I asked my doc for nutritious plan but he just told me dont't need to eat for two will do. Sigh. I wish to maintain or not gain so much. Actually if best, lose abit of weight. Doc say if I didn't eat enough, baby can get the nutritients from me. Is it true? I also dunwan to walk around like humpty dumpty. I already got problem walking up 3 flights of stairs and gets out of breathe easily!
2) Delivery cost - Sigh, Sigh, I am not earning alot and of cos due to my debts, I am unable to save up too. So I been reading lots of forum on the estimate delivery cost and it seems like I pay at least $2k in cash after medisave claims. And I just read from CPF website that medisave must have a minimum of S$15k before the remaining can be used to deduct delivery cost...is it true? If not enough means got to top up cash? OMG...if I am unlucky and i need to go for emergency c-section after opting for normal with epi delivery how? Wah...so stressful. And I read that no hospital does installments. So, for those who are not so well-to-do how? ((
3) Tummy size - I know this is uncontrollable but my tummy is so big at 5th month as compared to others. Though everyone's tummy size is different. I felt that my tummy is very high and very 'firm'. I sense that if it grows further, which it will, my tummy will have horrible stretch marks. I am applying stretch mark cream now so probably not an issue, but i also experienced numbness on the top on my tummy, just below my breasts. It's quite painful not as if I will shout over it. HELP! I been experiencing numbness constantly...sigh sigh.
4) Ante-natal class @ KKH - Just checking only, I am starting my class tomorrow. If anyone is also in the class? My hubby is going reservist for 2 weeks in July and I will be alone for 2 classes. Trying to make friends here prior to the class...
Thanks for tuning in...I need a place to relieve my stress...
Besides today is Monday BLUES, I also have pre-natal blues. I got so many things in my head and I dunoe how to release my stress over them. Perhaps anyone who is very free can give me some advice or suggestions. Thanks in advance...
1) Weight Gain - Sigh, I started being slightly overweight and now (at 20th Week) I gained almost 12 kgs already. I read that my max should be only 13kgs. I asked my doc for nutritious plan but he just told me dont't need to eat for two will do. Sigh. I wish to maintain or not gain so much. Actually if best, lose abit of weight. Doc say if I didn't eat enough, baby can get the nutritients from me. Is it true? I also dunwan to walk around like humpty dumpty. I already got problem walking up 3 flights of stairs and gets out of breathe easily!
2) Delivery cost - Sigh, Sigh, I am not earning alot and of cos due to my debts, I am unable to save up too. So I been reading lots of forum on the estimate delivery cost and it seems like I pay at least $2k in cash after medisave claims. And I just read from CPF website that medisave must have a minimum of S$15k before the remaining can be used to deduct delivery cost...is it true? If not enough means got to top up cash? OMG...if I am unlucky and i need to go for emergency c-section after opting for normal with epi delivery how? Wah...so stressful. And I read that no hospital does installments. So, for those who are not so well-to-do how? ((
3) Tummy size - I know this is uncontrollable but my tummy is so big at 5th month as compared to others. Though everyone's tummy size is different. I felt that my tummy is very high and very 'firm'. I sense that if it grows further, which it will, my tummy will have horrible stretch marks. I am applying stretch mark cream now so probably not an issue, but i also experienced numbness on the top on my tummy, just below my breasts. It's quite painful not as if I will shout over it. HELP! I been experiencing numbness constantly...sigh sigh.
4) Ante-natal class @ KKH - Just checking only, I am starting my class tomorrow. If anyone is also in the class? My hubby is going reservist for 2 weeks in July and I will be alone for 2 classes. Trying to make friends here prior to the class...
Thanks for tuning in...I need a place to relieve my stress...