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2 more weeks to endure. Baby will be back... My hb did cry when we sent her off in airport. Hope he feel the pain and wake up...

Think my hb will die first before me. He slimmed down quite a lot ever since we are in this strained r/s. Emotionally, or mentally, I am a very strong and rational person. Mil will not cut corners in doing things. But her way of cooking is too old fashioned to me. Have u seen ppl add sesame oil...

San20sg, u are right. But I believe that u have a supportive or reasonable hb. My hb is pity his mum a lot and think that her sacrifice is not appreciate if i dun allow my daughter to follow her back to china. The emotional stress and mental stress that I am going thru are too much. The end...

Lowe80, what did u think now when my hb wanna split the joint account and get back his share of money? Btw, after he asked for it, he told me to calculate clearly. It happened to be negative amount. So I do not need to give him a single cent. This Aug, mil wanted to bring baby back again...

Thanks Lowe80. I have moved back home. Hope things will be better like what u mentioned. I was born in china but I left at 5 and went to Hong Kong. Then 12 to Singapore. He is the only child. His family is just a normal family with some houses. I just hope baby will not learn from his mum. So...

I raised the divorce thing on thurs after learning that mil scolded my mum when she went over to fetch my daughter. That was the last straw. I took urgent leave to move back to my mum's home together with baby. Informed my hb I wish to divorce him, he initially was saying we can resolve it in...

Thanks all. Will be careful with my words

Yes, I am going for Counselling in 12 Jun. I dunno what they are plotting. I will be careful not to bring up the topic of divorce.

I have approached Family Service Centre and make an appointment on 12 Jun to see whether can resolve the issues. Updates: my hb dun sleep with me anymore. He has been sleeping in living room for 3 weeks. Asked him why. He said weather is hot and turning on Aircon is not good for baby. But he...

Thanks gal. I am not staying with in law. The flat belongs to us. Mil has flew back to china in dec 12. To maintain this marriage, I gave in. I let my daughter to go China. Thinking that I can fetch her back in this Apr. I let her go for my hubby to fulfill his "filial son's role", so that fil...

I did say her back before. She said ppl misinterpreted her. Denied! Now my fil also think my mum is bad. There is no way we can explain cos fil is in China. Mil SMS him and her relatives. My hb received SMS from them, scolding him for siding me ( in fact, he just stayed neutral). Mil is so evil...

I am not an emotional person. Actually, I am more rational according to numerous physiological test. But my mil is getting my nerves. She will scold me (why didn't change bb's clothes? Why wear such a tight socks?). She bad mouthed my mum (SMS me and exaggerated my mum's behaviour). She didn't...

I feel u! My mil is super sensitive too. It really irritated me and I quarreled with her twice (she denied her accusation of my mum bullying her as she told her relative that. She locked the main door, so my mum had to take out key to open doors when visiting my baby. Btw, she nvr lock the main...

Glad to see ur post. Like others, it serves as a reminder to me. I used to be a gentle person. But I become very argumentative when my mil has comments on my diet and the way of taking care bb. I even pointed my finger at her once. Scolded her twice. I dunno it is because of my hormones or she...

I have both too. Initially, I was on epidural. But my tolerance for pain is too low. I still feel the pain when I was on my way to emergency c-sec. I still feel the extreme pain... Then my Gynae suggested me to take GA. I just accepted it. Maybe u have to decide based on ur pain tolerance...

I was under Woodworth too. Same as Candizhu, happy with him. Always leave with a happy heart. My c-sec is recovering well too. I can walk on the second day.

OMG, ur mil really siao! Mine case looks so small now...My mil told her relative that my mum is bullying her. That pissed me off big time. My mum only came to my flat to help out in confinement as mil knows little on it and not taking good care of me. For ur case, think need to give in a bit...

Fisherman's friend and peppermint, totally agreed. "less" educated doesn't mean no common sense. My mum is even less educated, but she got much more common sense than mil... Mil always emits out the negative energy... Really dislike that. I will be careful. Not to let her talk too much to my bb...

Fisherman's friend, ur mil really senseless! How can she say that in front of a lil gal. It will affect them. My baby is only 6 weeks old. I already pissed off when my mil says things that are annoying to me. E.g I was using a room for massage (guest room that we let her stay) . She told my...

He tapped my legs, signalling me to stop. After that, when I was in my room, he told me that he trusts me. His mum also twisted his words before. He explained to me that his mum's thinking is like a child, we should not be angry with an ignorant person... Btw, I am not staying with in law. She...