My maid was my CL and my MIL came a few days to teach her to cook the confinement food.Yes, my 4th baby, kana sabo by my sis in law who supposed to do the confinement for me... haizzz long story.... i am doing everythings by my own now... day n night look after little Jayden although am really very tired with body aching... every 2 hourly breastfeed him etc...