Evangeline89
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I know this is a common questions but I am a single mum to be (baby due in july). How am i to tell the baby that the father abandon us? Can't be what. can i tell the baby that her father is in a far far away place?
OMG..I think as a responsibility to your child, you must be prepared to face ALL kinds of toughness. And also please inform the baby's dad. Its a responsibility TOWARD your child. Whether he takes it well or not, just accept whatever that comes to you. As for your parents...just tell them..do not throw temper or emo. Talk to them rationally. Tell them that you acknowledge this mistake but aborting will be ANOTHER mistake.. and also start researching on single parents help from family centres. they do help to talk to your parents also. I am telling you, that it wun be easy. And i know that you know vry well it is nt. In my case, i got kicked out of home, my parents wanted me to abort. I refuse. I just refuse and say I will take care of my baby and I make sure i do it..of course they wun believe until they SEE. I got very very strict parents. So I told my mum. my mum almost fainted. my dad just refused to talk to me..cos of his social status..very 'throw face'.. But I show them that I am a responsible adult. And now my mum keep siding my baby (who is not even out) saying her eyes are bigger den me and stuff lidat...my dad just want me to prove myself by letting me stay outside for 1 year. show that i know that i can take care of my baby. As for relatives...they called me slut...called me all sorts of things..all the negative things..I IGNORE. They can just sit back and watch me bring up my baby to be as well as theirs or even better. You can go to the thread young single mummies pls fall in that is started by me and read all the post..it can help you understand the picture better.Hi all
I'm in a similar predicament. I actually just found out early last week that I'm pregnant and went to the gynae this morning with my best friend to confirm it. My baby will be due in early Jan 2012 and though I've a very strong mind to keep the baby but there a lots of thoughts going on in my mind since I found out that I'm pregnant.
I have no intention of letting the baby's dad know as I know his predicament well and am intending to move out to stay on my own as well as I do not know how to break this news to my parents who assumed that I'm single all this while though I'm attached.
Really in a loss...
the first thing your shld do is to speak to your parents. u know your parents well, so just be prepared on how they might react. when i found out i was preg, i told my dad first, becos i know though he is "fiercer" than my mum, he is more rational in thinking. my decision was right, cos after my mum found out, she was pretty emotional. since u r very firm in keeping the child, let your parents know and the best is, let them know your plans for this child and how r u gg to cope. at least, they can accept it easier knowing u hv thought it through. may i know, what is the reason for not letting the child's father know??Hi all
I'm in a similar predicament. I actually just found out early last week that I'm pregnant and went to the gynae this morning with my best friend to confirm it. My baby will be due in early Jan 2012 and though I've a very strong mind to keep the baby but there a lots of thoughts going on in my mind since I found out that I'm pregnant.
I have no intention of letting the baby's dad know as I know his predicament well and am intending to move out to stay on my own as well as I do not know how to break this news to my parents who assumed that I'm single all this while though I'm attached.
Really in a loss...
imho, u should let the baby's dad n ur parents know even if u dunno how to break the news.. u are going to be responsible for another person soon, so start by being a responsible person yourself..Hi all
I'm in a similar predicament. I actually just found out early last week that I'm pregnant and went to the gynae this morning with my best friend to confirm it. My baby will be due in early Jan 2012 and though I've a very strong mind to keep the baby but there a lots of thoughts going on in my mind since I found out that I'm pregnant.
I have no intention of letting the baby's dad know as I know his predicament well and am intending to move out to stay on my own as well as I do not know how to break this news to my parents who assumed that I'm single all this while though I'm attached.
Really in a loss...
Just tell your child the truth, Show him/her that you care and love him/her even without the father.I know this is a common questions but I am a single mum to be (baby due in july). How am i to tell the baby that the father abandon us? Can't be what. can i tell the baby that her father is in a far far away place?