Marriage Life After BIG Quarrel?
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Me too. But now i have to more soft-spoken, gentle and recently he has slight shown some improvement but still i dunno if he still contact her or not. I wanna to trust him but yet my mind can'tMeaning we must tell lie instead of truth, haiz but i really cant take it if he go n confide to a gal .
Queenbabe
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So horrible , must be something gng wrong . What baobei yucks sickening lo . Haiz y mus do such terrible stuff to make u upset . I truly understand ur feeling jjmummy , i know there mus be trust in the marriage but somehow after so many things happen lastime i dun dare to trust my DH anymore . My DH lastime also open another friendster acct jus to add gals , after that i found out really curse & swear him .
Ya. I try not to think soo much and try to believe his words but still i suspect if they meet up after work, if he still call her on the way home etc...but life still have to move on...
SH74
Member
wah... open acct jus to chat w each other? password baobei somemore?! this is too much. if my hb do this, i sure v angry. how to still hv trust? really diffi. but hor, how come ur hb so blur? let u find out this email acct?
but wat he did is really fishy n too much. this type is not considered as confiding in her.
Yes i do agree with u that wat he did and behave is fishy. But after a "talk", i found out tat he wants a generous not petty wife who suspect too much. Moreover, to him, it's juz a gal. so i give up now completely. Let him do as he wanna.
Tks for ur comfort n concern. Now i no longer sad. Sumtimes he do treat me nice. Anyway i shd concentrate on my children n myself more.
I guess tat's men's problems. No matter how good they treat u bfore marriage, After marriage, everything has changed. They began to take things for granted. They no longer put in more effort in tis relationship or rather marriage. TO them, we won't run away no matter wat cos we will stay by their sides. Tat's y they nv cherish us. Only till they "lose" us then they begin panic. Tat's men. And we gals tend to be more emotional, that's y we cherish them more. And men are strange creatures. No matter how pretty or how excellent their wives are, they are nv satisfied.
U mean me? I have a gal n a boy. Both of them in pri school.So u have one kid now ? How old ? Lets talk abt something happy
SH74
Member
so sweet... :wong19:Precisely ! But i tink my DH still ok now abit scare of me coz if he irritate me i wont even talk to him at all . Last fri i say i abit paranoid say he keep OT & say our feelings abit dull dull . He straight away come home say 1 2 accompany me . Im really surprise
Queenbabe
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Yes so sweet until got ants come LOL
CanCanMum
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bo liao leh ~ u~
Queenbabe
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Paiseh la , joking only mah
tks alot. I will. Now he seems to be much better. At least he noes i dislike him holding hp so he will try not to do so in my presence and try to spend more time with me.jjmummy > jia you!! no matter wat, more impt is still urself n ur kids.