CanCanMum
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Hi All,
Just something to ask all of u for an opinion on behalf of my friend.....
For those who have not followed the previous "episode" of what happened to my best friend, here the link:
http://www.mummysg.com/forums/f13/why-can-t-you-accept-she-i-just-friends-6468/
<basically they have quarreled due to her DH's female friend whom he claims that "They are just friends". But they smsed one another quite frequently and up till the extent that they greet one another good morning and good night....and even when they were on holiday the lady will sms her DH to ask him how is he now etc etc....>
Anyway things have been 'great' for her, her DH is ok now, they are living life as normal....DH agrees to reconcile, DH is spending time with the kids, less smses when at home or perhaps none at all? At work = totally an unknown factor.....
However, my friend is still living in misery because she is somehow suspicious of everything her DH is doing.....be it holding a HP, smses coming in (lesser now but still have but it gets deleted after it has been read), and whole day while he was at work.....
How can she trust this man again? How can she walk out of her misery? Her DH is not willing to give her a conclusion, as in whether he wishes to keep a distance with the girl or not.....but he is willing to reconcile.
Although all of us are telling her not to think too much, just try to live life happily as it is....she has tried very very hard but there is still this uncomfortable feeling that she is unable to let go....let alone start to rebuild the trust again....very hard she says
Any views on this?
Continue on life with a suspicious heart?
Just something to ask all of u for an opinion on behalf of my friend.....
For those who have not followed the previous "episode" of what happened to my best friend, here the link:
http://www.mummysg.com/forums/f13/why-can-t-you-accept-she-i-just-friends-6468/
<basically they have quarreled due to her DH's female friend whom he claims that "They are just friends". But they smsed one another quite frequently and up till the extent that they greet one another good morning and good night....and even when they were on holiday the lady will sms her DH to ask him how is he now etc etc....>
Anyway things have been 'great' for her, her DH is ok now, they are living life as normal....DH agrees to reconcile, DH is spending time with the kids, less smses when at home or perhaps none at all? At work = totally an unknown factor.....
However, my friend is still living in misery because she is somehow suspicious of everything her DH is doing.....be it holding a HP, smses coming in (lesser now but still have but it gets deleted after it has been read), and whole day while he was at work.....
How can she trust this man again? How can she walk out of her misery? Her DH is not willing to give her a conclusion, as in whether he wishes to keep a distance with the girl or not.....but he is willing to reconcile.
Although all of us are telling her not to think too much, just try to live life happily as it is....she has tried very very hard but there is still this uncomfortable feeling that she is unable to let go....let alone start to rebuild the trust again....very hard she says
Any views on this?
Continue on life with a suspicious heart?