It started like this, the story.................
My sister just have a miscarriage during her 1st time preggy(5mth old bb,twins) she put the blame on me and saying that she joining me now in having depression.
actually during her preggy, Yes. Im the one who call her to tell her about family problem(i admitted) Cos my brother have a girlfriend(who hv married & hv a 6yrs old girl) which my mum super objection and so was my dad. So my mum knew it,very upset and cry everyday when she calls me, and so was my brother cry everyday to call me and ask me to help him by telling my mum and explaining.... I myself really don't know how to settle/handle this problem and that why i call my sis to talk about it.... (bcos during this thing happen, my hubby was oversea as he a sailor) So i got no one to talk to. And i feel that family problem shld family mem than can settle it ma.And that the reason i talk to my sis. But she blame me after her miscarriage saying "when she was preggy, she wanted to stay happy.But i keep adding family problem to her" Am i wrong to do that?
My sister and brother, I always help them and care for them when they got problem or sick(in hospital)no matter how busy i am and tiring looking after my 2kid all by myself. I still make the effort of going and show my care. i never expect anything from them at all and just want to let them know, the reason i do that is bcos they are my only bro & sister. But when come to me, staying in hospital, miscarriage, give birth & resting at hm. They will never come and visit me(they got no kids at all) It reallys hurting me bcos how come when im down, there's no one in my family come n visit me at all. My hubby knew about it again & again (cos it's not the 1st time i admitted in hosptial and thing happen to me) He hates them so much and tell me not to bother about them when thing happen to them the next time as they keep hurting me. But i told him "no matter what we r still sibiling"
But who knows this time after my sis incident. I really upset by the way she sms me and posting in another forum complaining abt me and telling others i have depression......
My sister just have a miscarriage during her 1st time preggy(5mth old bb,twins) she put the blame on me and saying that she joining me now in having depression.
actually during her preggy, Yes. Im the one who call her to tell her about family problem(i admitted) Cos my brother have a girlfriend(who hv married & hv a 6yrs old girl) which my mum super objection and so was my dad. So my mum knew it,very upset and cry everyday when she calls me, and so was my brother cry everyday to call me and ask me to help him by telling my mum and explaining.... I myself really don't know how to settle/handle this problem and that why i call my sis to talk about it.... (bcos during this thing happen, my hubby was oversea as he a sailor) So i got no one to talk to. And i feel that family problem shld family mem than can settle it ma.And that the reason i talk to my sis. But she blame me after her miscarriage saying "when she was preggy, she wanted to stay happy.But i keep adding family problem to her" Am i wrong to do that?
My sister and brother, I always help them and care for them when they got problem or sick(in hospital)no matter how busy i am and tiring looking after my 2kid all by myself. I still make the effort of going and show my care. i never expect anything from them at all and just want to let them know, the reason i do that is bcos they are my only bro & sister. But when come to me, staying in hospital, miscarriage, give birth & resting at hm. They will never come and visit me(they got no kids at all) It reallys hurting me bcos how come when im down, there's no one in my family come n visit me at all. My hubby knew about it again & again (cos it's not the 1st time i admitted in hosptial and thing happen to me) He hates them so much and tell me not to bother about them when thing happen to them the next time as they keep hurting me. But i told him "no matter what we r still sibiling"
But who knows this time after my sis incident. I really upset by the way she sms me and posting in another forum complaining abt me and telling others i have depression......
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