I have a problem now (should say related to $$$). My DH now is the only person who work & paid all expenses. (My PIL & xiao gu stay with us, PIL's 3 room flat rent out abt $1500 w/o incl. utilities bill) MIL got gastric prob & feel tired easily, unable to work. FIL only think of himself, when they decided to move in stay with us he said will support $500 monthly as part of house's expenses (if my DH din ask, he din give... unautomatic) SIL open her own shop also abit like FIL character, got dip. cert look for job easily dun wan. Her reason of not working coz dun wanna see boss's face & wan earn BIG $$$... I quit my job last yr feb & look after my own small business, wind up in July as the landlord unreasonable increase rental from $2080 to $2580. When looking for job while studying part time, found out that i am preggy.(when go interview, told them i preggy their face "color" immediately change)
When we prepare for our wedding, i only ask my close relatives & friends about 8 tables total. PIL wanna invite whoever they know (my DH is the only son) end up we have 24 tables & overall cost $12000+++. We use all our ang pow received from relatives & friends paid for dinner. FIL said we still have MANY MANY MANY $$$ left so no need to give us the $500 expenses.
So i tell my DH is OK, as long as we save abit spend ONLY on neccessary thing.
Now headache is, FIL spent all my MIL money during DEC 08'-CNY (about $7K) can imagine... (Din give expenses $ to us, only buy daily cooking ingredient sometime eat leftover foods, his own transport, no need to give ang pow... Basically he only buy foods home which he like to eat wan).
We only noe it when DH wanna borrow cash from MIL when i give birth if not enough cash to pay upon discharge.
So now i thinking shall i change to KKH for delivery??? Really haiz... signz
When we prepare for our wedding, i only ask my close relatives & friends about 8 tables total. PIL wanna invite whoever they know (my DH is the only son) end up we have 24 tables & overall cost $12000+++. We use all our ang pow received from relatives & friends paid for dinner. FIL said we still have MANY MANY MANY $$$ left so no need to give us the $500 expenses.
So i tell my DH is OK, as long as we save abit spend ONLY on neccessary thing.
Now headache is, FIL spent all my MIL money during DEC 08'-CNY (about $7K) can imagine... (Din give expenses $ to us, only buy daily cooking ingredient sometime eat leftover foods, his own transport, no need to give ang pow... Basically he only buy foods home which he like to eat wan).
We only noe it when DH wanna borrow cash from MIL when i give birth if not enough cash to pay upon discharge.
So now i thinking shall i change to KKH for delivery??? Really haiz... signz