For men to change heart, it is so fast... my hubby is 8 yrs younger than me, and we are together for 8 yrs plus, sometimes I do worry, what happen another 10yrs later? He is only 36..., but if he want to change heart and dun intend to give up the woman, what for to 'wan hui' the marriage? Luckily, he look quite mature and I look quite young... wahaha...My husband also kena warned before but useless. Somemore, still can turn around and say I over sensitive. In the end, I have to rely on my guts feelings and GOD's help by digging for evidence then confront him. Lesson learned, never confront them till you have concrete evidence.
My first thought on discovering the affair was to divorce him. But later on second thoughts, wouldn't that fulfilled the wish of the "foxy woman". Furthermore, I noticed my children behaviour start to changed cos in the past, we are really loving every weekend bring kids out to play whole family holding hands and blocking people's path...:001_302: so for the sake of the kids, I decided to forgive him and not kick up a fuss.
Forgiving means never mention the affairs again not letting any of my parents, in laws and relatives know. That's why all the bottling up is bad for the health...:embarrassed: