Hi rashescinderalla, sorry to hear abt the news. Hope u r coping well. For me I onli know it's best dun attend funeral. But since he is ur closest kin, should be ok. But like ur grandma mention. U need to follow her instructions. For your bb gd too. Take gd care of urself ok. Dun over upsetDear all mummies,My granddad just passed away this morning. He was rather close to me.. May i ask if it is okay to attend the wake/funeral?