ya, i will talk to my mother today, already "REN" her attitude for months, now i really cannot take it and explode, i can't sleep at night and my anger cannot go off.
worst the case i will ask my milk help me prepare everything in the morning, then during day time i just need to feed the baby.
btw, my mil said, last time when she was in confinement period, she did bath every day , and wash hair every other day, she bought the herbs to boil n bath n wash hair, the herbs she get it at Toa payoh, she did that for her 3 pregnancy and her other friends also did the same, so far now no any side effect when they grown old, she is ard 55 or 56 this year
worst the case i will ask my milk help me prepare everything in the morning, then during day time i just need to feed the baby.
btw, my mil said, last time when she was in confinement period, she did bath every day , and wash hair every other day, she bought the herbs to boil n bath n wash hair, the herbs she get it at Toa payoh, she did that for her 3 pregnancy and her other friends also did the same, so far now no any side effect when they grown old, she is ard 55 or 56 this year
I hv heard of mummies giving birth n doing their own confinement with no help. U shd be able to if u want but will be tough on u. Can arrange for confinement meals to be sent to u but gotta take care of ur Bb so may sacrifice ur rest. More importantly, wat messaging it will send to ur mum? Later strain the relationship further.
For me, one reason why I engaged a CL instead of approaching my mum or mil is bcos I know my temper n limits so rather not strain the r/ship.