NuR_iRfAn
Well-Known Member
This is wat my mum told me during my pregnant..She said that first time biar lah beli brg2 baby....Anw,mine son is the first cucu so everythings is new.....I had this problem when i was about to give birth last year. I dont mind org nak kasi barang walaupun 2nd hand stuffs but i dapat kes teruk punya. Like as if i ni tong sampah. Baju dah kuning2, stroller kes nak gi buang punya. I felt VERY offended and i decided not to take anymore. So, i beli. Then my sister-in-law said, "Kau buang2 duit aje. Bukannyer anak kau nak pakai sampai dah besar. Lagipun, kau tak keje. Jgnlah susahkan adik aku." Then i get VERY offended again!! Super pissed off! Mcm anak i tu bukan anak laki i jugak. Terus my hubby bingit bila dgr. sister In law lupa, by saying that, laki i felt tersinggung, like as if he cant afford to buy things for his own daughter. So, from that day onwards, i dont believe in 2nd hand things coz ppl kasi barang kes asal boleh.
But i dont mind if org kasi barang yang terjaga and bersih . Put yourself in their own shoes .. takkan nak kasi org barang yang kes any moment kena buang punya. Mana nak letak muka.... tsk tsk..
Now alls my son belonging i passed to my bro son.....