Ahwang jiayou!! Although u've been feeling lousy, whatever you have done for bb is great!! It's not just other mothers, you've been strong n great too, doing all that you can for the bb!! I used to "dream" about the break during maternity leave too. Now, what break? Motherhood is a 24/7 job, really need to become a mother then understand!! Haha I also dun understand my little girl too... Babies r just so hard to understand right? If only there's a baby language/cry translator app!! XD
I was feeling v down 2 days ago n snapped at my hubby while crying while latching bb. I broke down n erupted, hubby was shocked n asked me why n I just said all he does is play game n nv care abt bb n me. He immediately go off his pc. Then he went to sleep early -_- n at pass midnight after I pumped I wrote a whole chunk of things to his fb messenger... On how I feel so miserable etc, feel like his game etce on higher priority than bb n me, and many more issues. The next day he didn't talk abt it but he did try to be nicer... He still doesn't bathe bb etc but it's ok I won't expect him to turn from a hands-free dad to a hands-on dad overnight. I know some dads just can't handle the bb... But at least when bb cries he will not just continue to play game n let her cry n wait for me to handle.. He'll try to pacify her. As much as I want to be the superwoman mother n wife who can do every single thing without hubby's help, I really appreciate if I can be relieved from my duties even for a while.
Justamom if u hv it at home u try using without insert n see if ur bb is ok? I'm also using without the insert.. I'll still try to hold her neck though not all the time, but so far so good.
I was feeling v down 2 days ago n snapped at my hubby while crying while latching bb. I broke down n erupted, hubby was shocked n asked me why n I just said all he does is play game n nv care abt bb n me. He immediately go off his pc. Then he went to sleep early -_- n at pass midnight after I pumped I wrote a whole chunk of things to his fb messenger... On how I feel so miserable etc, feel like his game etce on higher priority than bb n me, and many more issues. The next day he didn't talk abt it but he did try to be nicer... He still doesn't bathe bb etc but it's ok I won't expect him to turn from a hands-free dad to a hands-on dad overnight. I know some dads just can't handle the bb... But at least when bb cries he will not just continue to play game n let her cry n wait for me to handle.. He'll try to pacify her. As much as I want to be the superwoman mother n wife who can do every single thing without hubby's help, I really appreciate if I can be relieved from my duties even for a while.
Justamom if u hv it at home u try using without insert n see if ur bb is ok? I'm also using without the insert.. I'll still try to hold her neck though not all the time, but so far so good.
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